身為人,總有孤獨的時候,尤其在疫情肆虐、世道不好的現在,我們有各自的煩惱、正卡住的關,夜深人靜,關暗燈光時,一個人窩上床準備入睡時,卻會被突然襲來的寂寞擾得不得安寧,沒有人可以訴說,因為總難有人懂為何三更半夜不睡,要為心中的雜訊失眠許久?
一時情緒也好,失戀、工作低潮和朋友爭吵也好,有很多名人也懂你內心的孤獨難受,聽聽他們如何講述自己的孤單,其實你並不特別脆弱,甚至比想像中的更堅強。
#1
Anne Hathaway
「我最擔心的事就是孤獨,沒有人可以關心,也沒有人照顧我,希望我不要再遭受這樣的事。」
"The thing that I’m most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me. That horrible feeling of isolation is something that I hope I never have to deal with again."
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#2
Cara Delevingne
「我覺得我非常孤單,而且無法表達自我,因為我為我的情緒感到羞恥。我想確保孩子們瞭解,情感和脆弱是一件很重要、也必須被說出來的事。」
“It felt like I was completely alone and I couldn’t express myself because I felt ashamed of my emotions. I want to make sure that kids realize that emotions and vulnerability are important and should be spoken about."
#3
Robert Pattinson
「人們不會知道你有多孤獨。但無論如何,我還算幸運,因為沒有在太年輕的時候成功,至少在這之前,我可以過上真正的人生。」
"People don't realize how lonely you are. In any case, I feel fortunate because success didn't reach me very young, at least, I had the opportunity to have a life before."
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#4
Lady Gaga
「每個晚上,我都是一個人。所有人最後都會離開,對吧?他們會走,而我會獨自留在原地。從整天都有人和我說話、談論我的地方,到最後還是只能徹底沈默。」
I’m alone, Brandon. Every night. And all these people will leave, right? They will leave and then I’ll be alone. And I go from everyone touching me all day and talking at me all day to total silence.”
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#5
Britney Spears
「常常覺得很寂寞,你不知道能相信誰,誰又是虛偽的。我的交友圈很小,所以要逗我開心還滿容易的。」
"It can be lonely at times. You never know who to trust, and some people can be fake. I have a very small circle of friends, and simply do what makes me happy !!!"
#6
Gisele Bündchen
「有時候我們會覺得孤單,好像走投無路,但這都不是真的。在恐慌症發作的痛苦時刻,我尋求家人、專家、老師和朋友的幫助。求助,不代表失敗而是一種強大,因為你真的很珍貴,值得被這個世界強力保護。」
“Sometimes we feel alone, as if there is no way out, but that is not true. My panic attacks were difficult, and I sought help from my family, specialists, teachers, and friends. Asking for help is never a sign of failure but a sign of strength because your life is worth saving.”
#7
Selena Gomez
「你必須弄清楚朋友圈裡的每個人。我總覺得,每個人我都認識,卻沒有一個人是朋友...。與人建立關係的感覺很好,可是設定界線也很重要。你必須要有一些尊重你,總是為你好,而你也只想對他們好的朋友。」
“You have to figure out the people that are in your circle," she added in the interview. "I feel like I know everybody but have no friends ... it feels great to be connected to people, but having boundaries is so important. You have to have those few people that respect you, want the best for you and you want the best for them."
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