女友的微辣等於大辣：插畫家筆下的「三觀不合」，反倒成了最甜蜜的日常

來自義大利的插畫家 Matteo，透過畫作勾勒出與印尼妻子 Milia 的相處模式，逗趣地分享彼此間的「文化差異」，透過 Instagram 帳號 West in Asia 記錄下一張張甜蜜的日常。

看著看著，或許也會想起身旁的那個人，你們是如此的與眾不同，卻又氣味相投。原來，這就是愛情動人之處：不一定要找到三觀完成一致的人，才算是「對的人」。幸福，是學會接受彼此都是獨一無二的個體，縮小對方的缺點、放大對方的優點，不輕易改變對方。

女友說想去「海邊」

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The Jacket at the beach? Yes, that could happen! While there are thousands of Westerns that are craving for a sunbath, there are millions of Asians that are running away from it! . . . #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #couplegoals #coupleillustration #bali #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Jan 22, 2020 at 10:02pm PST

男友：你這樣不會很熱嗎？

女友：比起熱，我更怕黑。

當女友開啟「追劇」模式

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Side effects... . . . #isolation #lockdown #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #couplegoals #coupleillustration #bali #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Mar 30, 2020 at 4:18am PDT

男友：你不是剛吃飽嗎？

女友：對呀！（咀嚼中）

嘗試和女友一起「冥想」

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Meditate, she said. It's easy, she said. Have a awesome Meditation! (If you can) . . . #meditation #mosquito #meditationspace #meditate #bali #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #interracialmarriage #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #couplegoals #coupleillustration #yellowfever #balilife #canggu #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Dec 18, 2019 at 9:46pm PST

女友：………（專注在呼吸上）

男友：………（專注在蚊子上）

當女友說「不辣」時

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Did you ever try to take with your bare hands a wooden trunk on fire and put it directly into your mouth, quietly chew and swallow? No? Why should you do that, right? Well, no-one in South-East Asia would do the same, with the exception of the chili in the food. #spicyfood Be ready to sweat, to get red, to see vapor going out from your ears and fight against powerful attacks of hiccough. Matteo survived…until now. #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #interracialrelationship #interraciallove #interracialmarriage #mixedlove #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #swirllife #swirllove #bwwm #couplegoals #coupleillustration #yellowfever #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #asiangirls #indonesiangirl #bae #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang #pedas

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Nov 20, 2019 at 9:01pm PST

男友：天啊！明明超辣！！

女友：會嗎？（再嚐一口）

女友說也想下去玩水

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DO YOU KNOW HOW TO SWIM? Paradisiac beaches, white sand, blue seas, uncontaminated locations, wonderful diving spots, perfect surfing waves and so on. All around Southern-Eastern Asia the aquatic life can offer endless joy for those who want to get it. What Matteo never got is: Why do most of the people in here not swim like dolphins? Well, at least now Milia has turned as a new kind of fish, with some help. After only 1 month, from a level 0, she was able to move arms and legs in coordination staying up. After 1 year she is freely moving all along the swimming pools and quiet seas. Do you want to challenge her? #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #interracialrelationship #interraciallove #interracialmarriage #mixedlove #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #swirllife #swirllove #bwwm #couplegoals #coupleillustration #yellowfever #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #asiangirls #indonesiangirl #bae #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Nov 27, 2019 at 8:07pm PST

男友：你有帶衝浪板嗎？

女友：沒有，安全第一。

當女友說要去旅行

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Happy S. Valentine's Day! Here we are ready to go again, where? See you in Italy!!! . . . #valentines #happyvalentinesday #vday #valentinesday #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #couplegoals #coupleillustration #bali #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Feb 14, 2020 at 12:04am PST

女友：太棒了，我們出發吧！

男友：……（再重也不能說）

答應和女友一起上瑜伽

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Make yoga, she said. It's easy, she said. . . . . #yoga #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #interracialrelationship #interraciallove #interracialmarriage #mixedlove #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #swirllife #swirllove #bwwm #couplegoals #coupleillustration #yellowfever #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #asiangirls #indonesiangirl #bae #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Dec 4, 2019 at 9:03pm PST

女友：親愛的，你還好嗎？

男友：嗯...（多處已拉傷）

當男友說要親自下廚

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A regular Italian lunch, with a regular non-Italian reaction. . . . #italianfood #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #ldr #longdistancerelationship #couplegoals #coupleillustration #bali #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on May 7, 2020 at 12:11am PDT

女友：你這是一人份嗎？

男友：對呀，會太少嗎？

當女友遇上「冬天」

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男友：寶貝，會冷嗎？

女友：你說呢（抖）？

#10

差異再多，唯一不變的是

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Do you have the same problem hugging tall people? I've found a solution with Matteo. ...have awesome Hugs! . . . #hugs #hug #hugsandkisses #internationalcouple #mixedcouple #interracialcouple #interracialrelationship #interraciallove #interracialmarriage #mixedlove #mixedmarriage #marriedlife #swirl #swirllife #swirllove #bwwm #couplegoals #coupleillustration #yellowfever #balilife #baliwedding #canggu #artis #drawing2me #husband #wife #bule #farang

A post shared by West in Asia (@westinasia) on Dec 11, 2019 at 10:46pm PST

男友：我愛你。

女友：我也是。

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