喜不喜歡一個人,一段關係有沒有下文,很多時候只要約會一次就知道。想要讓人印象深刻,第一次見面聊天最好不要太無聊。如果只是聊「你從哪裡來」、「你做什麼工作」、「最近看了什麼電影」,難免顯得重覆無趣,問得太過頭了,還會不小心把約會直接變面試。
那有什麼問題能讓約會對象耳目一新卻不刁鑽奇怪,同時又擁有豐富的對話發展空間呢?記下以下 20 句有趣的問題,下次約會就能派上用場:
1 What's on your bucket list?
你的平生夢想清單上面有什麼?
2 If you could describe your musical taste in three artists, who would they be?
如果要你用三個藝人來描述你的音樂品味,他們會是誰?
3 If you could give me a tour of your hometown, where's the first place you would take me?
如果你能帶我參觀你的家鄉,你第一個會先帶我去哪裡?
4 What's your favorite place in the whole world?
這整個世界你最喜歡的地方是哪裡?
5 What do you hate about dating?
你最討厭約會裡的什麼事?
6 If you could hop on a plane right now, where would you go?
如果你現在能跳上一架飛機,你會去哪?
7 What’s something I wouldn’t guess about you?
你有什麼事情是我會猜不到的?
8 What’s your dream job?
你的夢想工作是什麼?
9 What do you like the most about living here?
你最喜歡住在這裡的什麼事情?
10 What’s been the most significant or best year of your life so far?
到你人生目前為止,哪一年是你最重要或最棒的一年?
11 Who has been the most influential person in your life?
你人生中最有影響力的人是誰?
12 What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
你曾做過最衝動隨興的事情是什麼?
13 Are there misconceptions about yourself you wish people wouldn’t make?
有沒有什麼關於你的事情,是你希望別人不會產生誤解的?
14 What do you wish you were better at?
你希望自己在什麼事情上能做得更好?
15 What’s been your biggest regret in life?
人生最大遺憾是什麼?
16 What’s the worst / best pickup line you’ve ever heard / dished out?
你曾經聽過 / 給出過最糟 / 最棒的搭訕詞是什麼?
17 Do you have any hidden talents?
你有沒有什麼隱藏的才能?
18 What are your quirks?
你的怪癖是什麼?
19 How do you like to spend your mornings / nights?
你喜歡怎麼度過早晨 / 夜晚?
20 Who do you talk to the most?
你和誰說最多的話?
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