《慾望城市》（Sex and the City）相信大家應該不會陌生吧？這部美劇中的經典之作幾乎概括了當代都市男女會遇到的所有情感問題，因此至今仍被不少觀眾當作戀愛指南，甚至是聖經。
看過的話大家應該都清楚，這部影視作品主要講述了發生在紐約曼哈頓四個單身女人身上的故事。她們都事業成功而且時髦靚麗，但卻遲遲未能順利走進婚姻，可以算是恨嫁的Charlotte雖然後來成功嫁給了白馬王子，但婚後生活卻和很多現實世界的婚姻一樣，需要面對婆媳關係、不孕不育、冷戰、精神出軌等種種問題，精彩而又深刻，所以今天，我們決定總結出劇中的最經得起時間考驗的22句話，不知道各位是否認同呢？
Samantha
1. “Don’t play hard to get with a man who’s hard to get.”
有情郎難尋，千萬不要在這樣的男人面前擺出一副難搞高冷的姿態，玩欲擒故縱、若即若離。
2. “Reality check. A guy can just as easily dump you if you f*ck him on the first date as he can if you wait until the tenth.”
搞清楚了，那你來消遣的男人，無論你是第一次約會就和他發生關係還是矜持地等到第十次約會在發生，他甩掉你的概率都是一樣的。
3. “Sex with an ex can be depressing. If it’s good you can’t get it anymore. If it’s bad you just had sex with an ex.”
與舊愛發生的性愛是令人沮喪的。假如這次體驗讓你前所未有的滿足，那你也再沒機會享受，因為他不屬於你，如果這次性愛很糟糕，那麼就更讓人顏面無存，因為你竟然淪落到要找舊愛來滿足自己。
4. “If their tongue’s just going to lay there, what do you think thrir dick’s goung to do?”
如果連接吻的時候，男人的舌頭都只會賴在那裡懶得動，那你還期望他們在床上會有多活躍和賣力呢?
5. “Practically all relationships I know are built on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion.”
據我所知，所有的親密關係都是建立在謊言和相互無條件接受的幻想之上。
6. “Oh please, there’s always a competition with an ex; it’s called ‘who will die miserable?'”
拜託，我們和前任之間永遠都會存在競爭，而這場比賽就叫做「誰死得難看」。
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Charlotte
7. “One woman’s trash is another woman’s treasure.”
蘿蔔青菜各有所愛，一個女人的草卻很可能是另一個女人的寶。
8. “It takes half the total time you went out with someone to get over them.”
忘掉一個男人所需要的時間大概是你和他戀愛時長的一半。
9. “Maybe we can be each other’s soul mates. And then we can let men be just these great, nice guys to have fun with.”
沒必要太過糾結於尋找能夠成為心靈伴侶的男人，也許我們閨蜜幾個正是對方的心靈良伴，至於男人嘛，就當作是漫長一生中邂逅的好玩伴好了。
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Carrie
10. “There is a good way to break up with someone, and it doesn’t include a Post-It!”
總有一個比較好和負責任的分手方式，但是絕對不包括偷偷用便利貼留言這一招！
11. “No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never get through it without your friends.”
不管是誰傷透了你的心，不管要花多久時間才能傷愈重新站起來，沒了朋友的陪伴你是絕對熬不過去的！
12. “Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back. Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.”
過去就像是一塊阻礙我們前進的絆腳石，也許唯有不再糾結於此，放手過去的自己，我們才有機會遇見新的自我。
13. “Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens.”
有時候，我們真的很應該要停止去分析過去、計劃未來、準確思考想要什麼和放大每個感受，一切順其自然也許會有更好的結果。
14. “That’s the thing about needs. Sometimes when you get them met, you don’t need them anymore.”
需求這件事就是那麼奇怪，有時候，當努力滿足了它之後，你就會發現你不在渴望和需要了。
15. “Eventually all the pieces fall into place . . . until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything happens for a reason.”
要知道船到橋頭自然直，每件事最終都會有個命中註定的圓滿結局，所以在此之前，就請笑對自己的困惑，活在當下吧，每件事情必有它發生的道理。
16. “The most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. “
在所有的關係當中，最令人興奮、最具有挑戰性和深刻意義的，不是戀愛，而是我們與自己的關係。
17. “You may be able to fake an orgasm, but you can’t fake intimacy.”
你也許可以假裝性高潮，但是親密感這種東西是無法偽裝的。
18. “Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.”
單身很多時候都會被解讀成沒人要，不過現在已經有了新的定義，至今還選擇單著，是因為不願將就，我們性感靚麗，而且敢於花時間去思考自己想要怎樣的生活，想與怎樣的人終老。
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Miranda
19. “Relationships are not about playing games. They’re about mature and honest communication.”
談戀愛可不是一場遊戲，想要維繫下來我們都需要變成熟和做到坦誠交流。
20. “If a man is over thirty and single, there’s something wrong with him. It’s Darwinian. They’re being weeded out from propagating the species.”
如果一個男人年過30了還是單身，那麼他一定有問題。這是達爾文學說，他們從繁殖工作中被淘汰了。
21. “Before you buy the car, you take it for test drive..”
和男人許諾終生就像買車一樣，付款之前，你也總得要試試它的性能吧？
H/T : Popsugar
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